Friday, February 4, 2011

Don't worry...

...I'm doing okay. Big deadline at work today so I'm happy throwing myself into work so I don't have to think about my colossal fail.

Met with three members of my local Resolve group yesterday after work. Wow, was it nice to talk to people who REALLY get it. Mr. Jem and I have really isolated ourselves as we've not told people in our local circle of friends.Okay, I told one girl firend, but she didn't want to hear about it. I let it drop.


Okay, back to work! Time to get over-caffeinated!

~Jem

15 comments:

Melissa G said...

Oh Resolve is good stuff. I'm glad you like the group you found.

Good luck with your deadline!

serenity said...

Having people IRL that get it is really REALLY good.(Well, mostly good. Then they start getting pg with IVF and you don't. That part sort of sucks. But wait! We're not talking about me, right?)

This cycling stuff sucks - and it's good to meet people who really do GET it. Really happy you like your group.

xoxo

erika said...

Having somebody in IRL really helps. I m glad you can connect with somebody, and how lucky you found some nice people there!
Caffeine ... hmmm)))

callmemama said...

So glad you could connect with other women (that you like) through Resolve!

HopeBPatient said...

I'm so glad you've found a good Resolve group. I've been going to one (IF Crossroads) and even though everyone's at a pretty different point, it's just so good to talk to real live people about all of this. Blogging is great and commenters are great, but somehow it just makes a real difference to be sitting across a table hearing worse stories than mine; or success stories even.

CS said...

YOU didn't fail, your body wasn't yet ready. It is so tough. You will be successful soon, I'm sure.

amiracle4us said...

I just emailed my local resolve leader person but haven't had the courage to go to a meeting. Are they helpful? I hope you have a wonderful, relaxing weekend..you deserve it!

Amy said...

Hi Jem, I'm really happy you are finding comfort with your local resolve group and staying busy at work. Enjoy your bottomless mimosas tomorrow!

WaitingVicky said...

It's fantastic that you are connecting with other women who can understand. Pamper yourself this weekend!

Illanare said...

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WiseGuy said...

Sorry about the BFN. It is a bat-smack on the face everytime.

And thank you for the very kind words you left me on my blog.

Hugs.

Kakunaa said...

So glad you are able to meet up with women who understand. It's soooo helpful. And YOU didn't FAIL. Please remember that!

linda said...

Your "friend" didn't want to hear about it? OMFG. Sweet Jem...I hope you have friends that will let you cry on their shoulders or push holes through their walls, whatever your inclination is.

I don't understand and I hope that Dr. Moustache tries to figure it out.

Please tell you that you consoled yourself properly with alcohol and caffeine.

Nick and Kristi said...

Hi girl...So sorry for negative test:( A while back you posted on my blog Miracle in the Making...A Great Joy is Coming...and you mentioned recent dx of NK cells...How did they tx that this past IVF? and so happy you have Resolve group it is to nice to come face to face with fellow IF patrons:)

~ Alli said...

I am so sorry to hear about your negative test and the stresses that you are currently living.

I have been following your blog for a few weeks now and I am enjoying it. So, I've nominated it for two awards on my blog, Are You Sure You're Doing It Right at http://areyoudoingitright.blogspot.com/

I am really looking forward to reading more and following your progress. All the best to you & sending you lots of blessings!

~ A