tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post1107012394775332073..comments2023-11-05T01:45:09.420-07:00Comments on Ambition: Motherhood: Help! Peer pressure - UpdatedJemhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10480192191711301637noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-39527821682264006702010-08-27T06:29:19.774-07:002010-08-27T06:29:19.774-07:00I once tried the "get there early, order a vi...I once tried the "get there early, order a virgin drink" thing. By the time my drink arrived, others had shown up. The server said HERE'S YOUR VIRGIN MARGARITA, thus drawing far more attention to me than not drinking at all would have. Yeah, I think if they ask, the meds excuse is a good one, but hopefully they didn't ask. Men can be oblivious in ways women often aren't. I hope you had some fun!bunnyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07197167351148883584noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-28696446773452316562010-08-26T18:30:37.602-07:002010-08-26T18:30:37.602-07:00you could say that you are so hungover from the pr...you could say that you are so hungover from the previous night and you're trying to detox. but probably the meds excuse will shut 'em up quicker.<br /><br />good luck and happy ICLW.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-90067709816109691172010-08-26T16:53:40.995-07:002010-08-26T16:53:40.995-07:00I also say use the medication excuse. Have a fun t...I also say use the medication excuse. Have a fun time!Brownirishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05968155365863127002noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-44663304883410691162010-08-26T15:43:29.183-07:002010-08-26T15:43:29.183-07:00I used the meds thing a lot in the past and it alw...I used the meds thing a lot in the past and it always worked. Good luck, girl! One of the many ways IF is just a pain in the ass, right?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-10614366632763715682010-08-26T15:20:59.534-07:002010-08-26T15:20:59.534-07:00ASP: the thing is that I WANT to go. It's a go...ASP: the thing is that I WANT to go. It's a going away event for a colleague who I've worked with for over 9 years! <br /><br />I begged off the last gathering, saying I had family in town and couldn't make it.<br /><br />It's just the 4 of us and I really like the crew. I've already told the guy leaving that I won't be drinking as I'm on mends. He was disappointed (usually I'm totally gung-ho for the boozing!).<br /><br />I promised to be loads of fun, even if I don't get drunk!<br /><br />Plus, I promised Mr. Jem I wouldn't drink.Jemhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10480192191711301637noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-31341950488558499462010-08-26T14:54:48.211-07:002010-08-26T14:54:48.211-07:00It's probably too late for this, but couldn...It's probably too late for this, but couldn't you just back out and say you aren't feeling good? The antibiotics excuse is good though. Although, I know all my friends would automatically assume that I'm pregnant if I went out and didn't drink.ASPhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07321670629336529429noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-73752138390145962892010-08-26T14:09:13.875-07:002010-08-26T14:09:13.875-07:00Antibiotics sister. Have fun!!!Antibiotics sister. Have fun!!!COME ON BABYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13508080594311805199noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-809173959717424982010-08-26T13:28:27.306-07:002010-08-26T13:28:27.306-07:00I would go with the antibiotic thing. Always safe,...I would go with the antibiotic thing. Always safe, doesn't require much explanation. Good luck!Kakunaahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09680945395324128951noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-54251366101831948802010-08-26T13:23:40.158-07:002010-08-26T13:23:40.158-07:00Lots of good ideas. In the past I have ordered a r...Lots of good ideas. In the past I have ordered a real drink and just kept it with me where ever I went, dumping out small portions when I could so that it looked like I drank it. Ladies room, garbages, etc. And I've definitely spoken to a bartender ahead of time too. <br /><br />Or you could say you're on a cleanse. But the antibiotics are also kind of a sure thing.<br /><br />Good luck, let us know what you decide!Melissa Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04150534738341942742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-12453652069055599012010-08-26T13:19:23.888-07:002010-08-26T13:19:23.888-07:00Meds! Through the first trimester of my first 2 p...Meds! Through the first trimester of my first 2 pregnancies I was constantly "on antibiotics for an ear infection" :-) Good luck.Illanarehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05203774916178621215noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-22232414968447921292010-08-26T13:02:52.747-07:002010-08-26T13:02:52.747-07:00You can do what a friend of mine did in the same s...You can do what a friend of mine did in the same situation. She talked to the waiter/bartender beforehand and told her situation (she was pregnant). I think she ordered a vodka with cranberry juice, but the waiter just brought her cranberry juice.<br /><br />Or you could just tell them you're a recovering alcoholic and shame on them for pressuring you to drink. Of course, that wouldn't work if you have had drinks with them in the recent past.<br /><br />www.brandysheaif.blogspot.comBrandyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07806448864302671635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-23867885467890979502010-08-26T12:39:45.307-07:002010-08-26T12:39:45.307-07:00I go with getting club soda with a splash of cran ...I go with getting club soda with a splash of cran and a twist of lime and generally noone asks. I have said antibiotics too. Lastly, my RE and Nutritionist say that 2-3 drinks a week have zero negative impact. Good luck!Mrs. Lemonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00755463276353064296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-60073346485109575142010-08-26T12:31:40.474-07:002010-08-26T12:31:40.474-07:00Just order a club soda and say you are taking alle...Just order a club soda and say you are taking allergy meds. Or say you have to meet someone later and can't start drinking yet (or you'll fall asleep!). Good luck. I've also ordered and then said I didn't like the drink, too. If you are in a pinch.Mrs. Misfitshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12245258330689439524noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-44547872032050385202010-08-26T12:02:30.654-07:002010-08-26T12:02:30.654-07:00I'd say to go with the antibiotic excuse, or s...I'd say to go with the antibiotic excuse, or some medication. Or you could order a 'virgin' mixed drink and they never have to know that you aren't drinking. That angle might be tougher to pull off but it might be worth a trip to the bar to order your own drink. Just a thought...good luck!!TeeJayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00893545693449975785noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-33210980433916660972010-08-26T11:51:14.364-07:002010-08-26T11:51:14.364-07:00I go with "i'm taking antibiotics so I ca...I go with "i'm taking antibiotics so I can't drink" and if people are stupid enough to follow up with another question about what the drugs are for I say, "oh, just this horrible rash I have" and leave them feeling all icky.<br /><br />Because seriously? It's no one's bizness.<br /><br />Have fun!irrationalexuberancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05772420700972282324noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-76559332940293584032010-08-26T11:48:11.230-07:002010-08-26T11:48:11.230-07:00I often use the "oh, I already have a headach...I often use the "oh, I already have a headache and alcohol will just make it worse." Or "no, thanks, I'm driving" (even if I'm not - I get a funny look but nobody asks, LOL). <br /><br />Or you could start a rumor by saying quietly while looking down, "my husband doesn't like it when I drink."Allisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02571149055152186880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-31630338523957301872010-08-26T11:45:17.971-07:002010-08-26T11:45:17.971-07:00Meds!Meds!Amber Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09018361388875043216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-32025791036737674472010-08-26T11:38:49.619-07:002010-08-26T11:38:49.619-07:00go with meds...that will reduce questions. Most p...go with meds...that will reduce questions. Most people wouldn't ask what you are on or for what reason. I think...Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12248242606378957930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2306202511573901064.post-33752534466043980892010-08-26T11:30:44.450-07:002010-08-26T11:30:44.450-07:00When I was in that situation I was able to tell fr...When I was in that situation I was able to tell friends, family, and co-workers that my Crohn's had been acting up, so I couldn't drink. You could use some type of a sickness excuse. Good luck, you'll have to let us know what you do!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com